50 - How to Be Thoughtful About Building a Positive Self Conception

We Explore How Someone Determines Who They Are By Examining the "Looking Glass Self" Theory.

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Minor Correction

I accidentally said the front yard food forest was about 2.5 years old, which was an error due to the impromptu nature of my presentation. I began discussing the idea with the landowner 2.5 years ago. The actual plantings began about a year ago and we planted trees which were 3 - 5 years old at that time. 


The Looking Glass Self Book

Human Nature and the Social Order by Charles Horton Cooley


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Tim Squirrell Blog Article About the Looking Glass Self


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Music Credit

Opening Theme Music: "Americana" by Kevin MacLeodCreative Commons License. Music unedited but vocals added by John Oden. We recently purchased the high quality version of this music to increase your listening experience. 


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